Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Bonfil Teens Go to Youth Group :)

Do you remember what it was like to see the world through the eyes of a child—the excitement of picking out whichever candy bar you wanted from rows upon rows of choices at the gas station; having your eyes opened to the immense pleasure of undiscovered worlds during your first visit to the movie theatre; the joy found in digging for buried treasure in the dirt under park benches?

I love how kids tend to see the world with such purity, simplicity, and wonder. And I love that my job gives me the opportunity to see the world through their eyes so much of the time. I was most recently reminded of this while taking some of the teenagers from the Bonfil community to youth group at my church. It was a whole new world for them: a water dispenser with funny little red plastic cups, swiveling air conditioners, blue Bibles with doves stamped with black ink on the pages, new songs, the expectation to sit and listen quietly—SO much newness, both overwhelming and invigorating for them.

Oscar prays for peace and harmony
None of them go to church, and while some of them have been on special holidays, none of them had ever been to a church like this. And while I struggled to keep them quiet and attentive, painfully aware of the backward glances and whispers from others each time my kids giggled inappropriately or made a snide comment or said they were tired of sitting in the class and wanted to play, I was overcome with love for my kids when the teacher asked what we would ask God for if we could ask for one thing. Other teens asked for Xboxes, a cello, play stations. My boy leaned over to me and whispered “peace and harmony”.

I was, again, overwhelmed by tenderness when the teacher asked us to turn to Joshua 1:9 in our Bibles. I smiled, knowing that this was one of the verses that my kids had memorized. When the teacher began to read the verse, one of my boys pushed past three of the other students, grabbed my arms, and with a look of absolute amazement exclaimed “Sarah! I know this verse! It’s the one we learned together! It really is in the Bible!” I couldn’t hold back my laughter as he tore through the pages looking for Matthew 6:9-13 (the Lord’s Prayer), another passage we had memorized.

So after a night of new experiences and saying goodbye to the teacher who thanked me for bringing “my” kids, who he agreed are “full of life”, we got back into the van and headed home. It was pure excitement the whole way back—“We loved it!” they shouted.
“Won’t you please take us with you on Sunday, too, Sarah—please!” begged one girl.
Three Teens from the Bonfil Community
“I made friends with the boy next to me today, Sarah, his name is Jeffery.” interrupted the boy sitting next to her.
“Who wants to go back again next week?” I asked.

“ME!!!” they all shouted in harmony. And I just smiled, happy to be in a van full of teens who beg to go to church and are delighted by finding verses they know in Bibles and who take little red plastic drinking cups home from churches as souvenirs to show their moms.

Thursday, January 8, 2015

Special Stories

I love people, and I love their stories, and I feel beyond blessed every time that someone chooses to share their story with me. By doing so, they're inviting me into their life and into their heart, and I find that to be deeply beautiful. One of my favorite things that I get to do with Back2Back is help the kids we work with to write down their life stories. I love watching their eyes sparkle as they tell me about the happiest thing they remember doing or what they want to be when they grow up. I giggle every time someone tells me they love Justin Bieber, and I'm always struck by how deeply, purely, and simply children understand the world we live in. Kids are truly remarkable.

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Most of the time, I try to write their life stories with just them so they don't feel pressured by their siblings or parents and so they can have the space to think. But when I went to little Luis's house to hear his story, his mom wanted to be a part of it, too. I said yes, although somewhat begrudgingly, knowing that Luis wouldn't tell me certain things because his mom was there. But God knew what he had planned for that day. Luis was nervous at first, but after a few questions I saw his face visibly change. He was glowing--soaking up every moment of talking about his life with his mom. I couldn't help but smile as I watched them talk about what Luis was good at, fun things their family has done together, and their story of moving to Cancun. It was obvious that Luis was loving the one-on-one attention he was getting from his mom, and I couldn't help but wonder if this was the first time they'd talked so much about just him.

Luis's Family at the Bonfil Community Christmas Party
In that moment, I was reminded of why I am working with Back2Back Ministries in Mexico. God brought me here to be a part of the work of his heart and to reach his children: to restore families, to redeem broken hearts, and to reach those who are earnestly seeking him. And I think that starts with one person feeling loved and special. Eventually those moments of feeling loved and special add up, and kids begin to understand that what God says is real, and healing takes place, and God is glorified. So as I help kids to write their stories and teach classes and plan events it's beautiful to know that I'm not the one making the change, God is. It's equally as lovely that God has decided to include me in that work so that I get to see with my own eyes so many of those little moments that add up to big change. We serve a very good God.